pet peeve

My biggest pet peeve is when people move my things without asking me. My mom did it all the time before she kicked me out. If i had things on the table, or maybe a book in the living room she would move it. She never asked if she could relocate my things, and worse yet she never told me when she did. Half the time she would forget where she put them and blame it on me. When people come in to my doorm room somtimes they pick things up to look at them, or eat some of my food. I wouldn't have any problem with this but permission is never recieved by them. I don't understand why people treat other people's things as if they are their own. My dad always uses my expencive hunting and fishing equiptment. I come home to find it strewn about the garage and house. If I say anything to my parents about them having no respect for my property they freak out. Also, I like for things to be neat and orderly. If someone does touch anything of mine I'm quick to notice.